for now on, save me the story about saving me the embarrassment by pm ing me.
it is more like the other way around.
& I will save people their embarrassment, by not mentioning names, but please don't pm me, & deny my pming you back, that is like I got the last word in and that is that, I can't even ask a question in regards to the pm!
I may be very opinionated, but I am not unreasonable! I never threaten or swear at anyone, so why the fear of my response? we are all grown ups here! I think?
I may not agree with someone, but I will not freak out on anyone unless they have freaked out on me.
my point is! if I said something wrong or out of context, then by all means delete my post, I am not worried about my rights here. as said before, this is not my site, & I can leave!
I would just like to know what in particular was so offensive, so I can correct myself, & refrain from repeating the same mistake.
& my points about what other people are doing is just to correct a future problem! I even added a smiley face.
I just didn't want that person who was being posted about to get hurt & upset like I have a few times, so I was trying to stop another repeat of the rules, & no personal attacks blah blah blah.
I just thought that the mods should see what they were doing, just in case it was a simple mistake no harm intended type comment on their behalf.
just no more pm's if I can't reply back to maybe further my curiosity, I don't need it!
but on another note, thanks for clearing up some of what the problem was.