Originally posted by IMbent
Nemo, you said "I, for one, am a little shocked at the backlash. Ouch!" I am confused. What backlash? I see people disagreeing with an ethical or moral descision. Backlash seems a little strong for whats been said here i believe.
an audio tape that had my mothers voice on it was recently found. my mother has been dead for 20+ years, and as my siblings and i were so young when she died, it is an incredibly valuable rememberance of her now. 2 dimensional pictures aren't quite as real and warm as hearing her speak.
i stand by my opinion and say the family should have them.
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I realize that people are only stating their opinion, some a little stronger than others, but I don't think that Jenny 25 did "a lot of investigating ". I think there was awe in what was found and maybe thought someone else may like to look at it. When I first started on the website I voiced what I thought was an opinion and almost got my head bit off. We need to remember that when we are writing something people can't hear the inflection in our voice and maybe could take things not like they were meant. I am sure that you did not imply that there was snooping involved but when I read your quote I kinda felt that maybe you may have thought that. See what I mean ? I think there was adequate searching for the family and maybe the letters should just be left in the attic, I don't know , but then some other people would be having this same conversation in about 50 years! Anyways, enough of that, I am truly happy that you found such a wonderful memory in the tape of your Mother's voice. It must have warmed your heart and I appreciate your honesty in standing by what you say! I see that you may not have belonged to the website for long either, so, Welcome
Just again my two bits......
Nemo
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